sometimes, i like to argue wif ppl... it somehow teaches mi how to stay calm n cool during heated discussions... how to think logically, without blurting any non-sensical lines... 1 day, it's the rush hr in the mrt. i am alighting, so i kept excusing myself to get near the door
den a burly indian heard mi, n moved SLIGHTLY toward the door n i followed.. he stopped there. i excused myself again, he moved a lil. i raised my voice, he said "can u hold on anot?" n stared at mi. i replied "i'm in a rush. may i?" n looked back at him for 2 secs. he maintained his glare, so i blinked n he started moving, but always looking back at mi.. i found another way out of the train n made my way to the escalator. den as i was abt to step into it, he walked just in front of mi, telling mi in my face, tat i'm not in a rush. i bochap him, treat him as non-existent. he den took the escalator step before mi.. n always kept looking at mi.. i knw he's got lotsa grumbles to speak abt mi..
but well, who will care at tat time?? my aim was alight the train n get out of mrt in shortest time possible. jus cos other ppl oso alighting from the train, dun mean they cant make way. some ppl r realyl rushing, or they dun wan to alight when other ppl r rushing in, or they prefer making their way out first, instead of waiting for ppl to lead the way.
so when the guy kept looking back, i simply looked away... he was oso looking impatiently at other ppl, but well, who will care wat he's doing?? if he tell ppl abt wat i did, they jus take him as crazy guy.. n if he's so free to follow n scold mi, i will probably warn him tat i'll report it to the cops..
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but well.. such defensive style aint taking place at work.. soemtimes, working wif an efficient high flyer, but a foreigner, is a headache.. true, she offers clear cut advice when complicated stuff need analysis. n she can identify which team to seek help from when issue arises. other than tat, it's stressful when her work style n mine dun gel.. there are conflicts from time to time.. until such a stage tat i dun realyl regard her as frn.. even during lunch, i prefer not to eat wif her..
well, i need to learn hwo to protect myself from nw on..
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