luv_ktv's untold moments

well, yes, once again, i'm proud tat i am finally staying on a job for almost a yr. during tis yr, i learnt a lot abt office attitudes. eg, y it's always good to have a learning attitude. instead of assume "u know it". n tat, although in office, everything is work n "it shld b done", but then, we oso have to depend on reln. simply 'cos it "shld b done" does not mean "it will b done". if u r on good terms wif a person, things will n can b sorted out easier. it's all abt building up of rapport.

n thinking back, it's also an accomplishment, when at times, my gal pal actually ask mi things which i am knwoledge enuff to tell her. 'cos all along, it's been her telling mi stuff, i seldom had the chance to tell her things whcih i know, cos she suually took effort to read up on it. yes i am lazy. including the time, ytday, when she ask mi "y shld she continue her job". well, she's still fast n quick thinker as usual, so, after tlling her my first line, she kinda know wat i tryign to say liao.

n at work, trusting a person's ability n living up to tat trust is utmost important in setting up a friendly n efficient workplace. someone passes a task. it means he has confidence tat u can do it n up to his expectations. if u do it swee swee (nicely), he knwo his trust in u is worthy of his belief in u. he will b able to trust wat u do in future, provided u dun fail his trust/expections. tis will lead to a more efficient n trusting env.

i read from the bk tat, some ppl have no such easy trust on others. they prefer to trust only when those ppl did soemthign to earn it.

however, once tat trust is broken, u can try to amend it. if both parties r working towards to re-building tat trust, soon, things shld b back to normal. however, if 1 party is not cooperating, den a boundary will be there, preventing smooth n efficient work env.

i'm saying these, cos KK dun blif n do wat i say. he doubts my words n abilities. yes, i have tis prob back in the past, but i did try my best to resolve it. now, i ask KK to do somethign, he delay it, and days later, it's not done yet. he's not doign thigns the way i did, or perhaps the way it had been done. until ytday, when the jnr is checkingt he report, den he dived into amending them.

n he was tokign to userB who seem to referrign to my userA case. he ask whether i spoke to userB b4. i said no. he tried arguing wif mi, but i simply told him flat on wat to do. he said, he'll rather wait for sup to b back. i ask him to check wif snr first. he stood up, and sat back, preferrignt o check wif sup. i knwo wat he's thinking: he wants to really check wif sup, n show tat i'm in the wrong, n put mi in bad light.

but later, he called userB back...
he: u rmb speaking to anyone on our side?
userB: ya.. ed
he: any1 else?
userB: i think ben oso
he: u rmb any1 else?
userB: no.. oni these 2
later, he put down the ph n spoke in a better tone to mi, tat somehow our cases cld b the same...

but wat i dun enjoy is, when the sup came back, he heard the whole thing, i told him my story, n he jsu came down onto mi, as tho he wanna eat mi up. he's right in his way, but tat dose not mean i did wrognly. mind him.

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anyway, my blog is not to focus on office stuff. i jus wanna lend my support to the NYP couple. she did nothign wrong. n HE as well. i jus wonder, y is the focus on the ger oni, n not much on the guy. is it due to the conservative mindset tat, gers shld b more decent?

everyone does thigns in the dark. jus a matter of whether it's being exposed anot. it's purely an unfortunate event that, it was spread like wild fire over the internet. n perhaps, as a student, the stereotype is students shld b at a learning age, and sex should not b an option. too bad, her doings on the bed have been exposed, and she has become a victim.

wat's more, TABLOIDS. they have the power of burning down a building with a flame. they wll do anuthing to sensationalise issues. i oso have some vids of myself posing here n there, n prtty erotic as well. but these r never shared wif anyoen, other than ppl i trust. i saw from papers tat she intends to stop schooling, but her parents encourage her to go on.

i'd say, let her rest for a period, and relax for a while. perhaps the boy can join her. let her relax, n come back to school again. it's a very painful experience for her, and she must get over it. no matter how long it takes. put it behind her, n get on her life.