Monday, August 22, 2005

my boi has jus closed down his blog, and moved to a new one. if the meeting this thursday is not a fruitful 1, i can expect somethign bad to happen to mi.

12 comments:

Chris said...

I hope you're OK. I'm thinking of you both. Hugs from London.

Anonymous said...

Why only regret when the harm is done.

Why only salvage when all is lost

Why lament when you were told before.

Why weep when all is in vain.

Bye.

luvktv said...

humans learn from mistakes and failures

When nothing's lost, nothing's to be salvaged

told before, does not mean it's understood and remembered

weep, is a natural response, when any living being is depressed and sad.

i can't control it if i really am weeping.

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so strange, frns of my boi always like to stay anonymous. if u really care for us, or perhaps just for him, why are all comments so negative?

I may not have put myself properly in his shoes and think for him, you can always tell me how to switch back the situation, instead of getting back at me for him.

It does not help but add salt to the wound if everything's said is to protect him, and not to save the day.

Anonymous said...

Mr Lim, still as bitchy as ever.

Please... you really think wesley need a guy like him?

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[ - 雯'§ - ] said...

couples fight couples reunite ...
but wht we outsiders are, and can do is not to comment .. for it is their prob and for them to resolve ...

Not for us outsiders to bitch nor view ..
Who do u tink u r to say others being bitchy when one urself is ??

BLAH

Anonymous said...

Mmm, another bitchy, lol, no offence intended.

but u mean we outta sit out and wait for someone to be hurt? A by-stander's view to be apathetic..

we can always sit out and say nice-to-say pleasantries like "i vow this, i vow that' ,but.. well i guess it's plain for all to see..

PATHETIC!

[ - 雯'§ - ] said...

Pot callin kettle black ...
so please stop pting ur fingers at others and not POINT BACK TO URSELF ..

i dun need knw wht is the exact details of their relationship nor need to knw their promises nor vows to each other. But be realistic ...
Relationships is oni made to view as perfect by the vows .. but in reality how many of the promises and vows are true ? Tink 1st and not comment pls .. I am not arguing nor tryin to start any flame war.
But please stop rubbin salt to wounds ... for tht is their business , wht we frenz can do is to support them morally in whtever decisions they make and not influence their decisions nor thots .. for it is a way for them to grow in their way and path ...

Anonymous said...

Pointing finger... no need , it s plain for all to... not trying to rub salt but i feel very sorry for Wesley.

You are KL's frd, not Wesley's so ur agenda's clear. Let's not force a all's rosy and well view.

let's remain lvl-headed and not biased.

luvktv said...

Hi Mr Anonymous,

I don't want to sound derogative, so I shall address you directly as Mr.

In a relationship, both parties involved are responsible for what turns out. It's the ups and downs that they experience which make them treasure each other more, and love each other more.

I and my boi, your wesley, have been through certain ups and soemtimes downs that you DO NOT KNOW.

I wonder, when we are so much in love, publicly displaying our affection, have you said anything in envy?

Why, when we are in bad times, my blog starts to receive unfriendly and destructive messages from you?

When you are in a bad situation, will you want your friends to tell you, in their views, what is actually happening? Or you don't mind them bitching about how the other party(s) should have done things? And telling you negative comments about the party?

Over my side, I can only see you posting negative comments about our relation. What's your purpose?

I know all you want is to tell me how Wesley is feeling, and run me down with what things I should not have done.

Isn't this adding salt to the wound? If you yourself are in a relation, will you like your friends to help you in this way, or support you in your decision?

Next, my friend, has never written a line of biased statement in reply to your blog. If yes, please point it out. If you mean, just because she knows me, so she is speaking up for me, please read her lines closely.

They are all from a third party point of view, without sides.

All regular visitors to my site have known me to a certain level. So, if they were to comment too, stating their POINT OF VIEW, are they biased? As they know me more than you?

I really have no wish to reply to your posts at all. However, my friend merely posted an unbiased comment, and you had the cheek to claim she's siding with me. Pls have a check on yourself.

And, I wonder if I'll ever know who I'm dealing with, since you prefer to stay anonymous.

Anonymous said...

Knowing who I am will not affect the status quo, would it?

I propose instead that you spend time looking to yourself and doing the necessary ... or perhaps inevitable.

FYI, I think if i happen to be in a destructive relationship, i would want my friends to give me a wake-up call and extricate myself from it. Not exactly pleasant but its for the best probably, and we can all learn from it.

Point taken. Let nature run its course then. Maybe one will relent afterall.

Anonymous said...

phew...wat an exchange...as a bystander, this make an interesting read...to the anonymous,
why dun you just mind your own biz? you are not part of the relationship...you are just a bystander...so what if you are, ermm...wesley's frd? if you have the rights to comment, why not errmm...sonya?
as for kevin, look mate, whatever will be will be, talk to your boyfriend about all the hoo haa...
i believe both are adults and can talk over a cofy, beer or whatever...
if things doesnt work out, just let it go...
my 2 cents worth of comments.

cheerios,
carameal.