luv_ktv's untold moments

i begin to wonder if i'm really more suited to a life of solitude. kinda getting used to living on my own. yes, i'll still catch up wif frns though.

when ppl are living on their own, they tend to be the decision makers. so, they have to realise n find out wat is the better/best option for anything. in such case, they grow up to be more independent. n if we know wat's best for us, we may want things done our way. in such cases, will there be anyone who can accept us?

well, i do agree tat there can be clashes from tiem to time due to thinking n belief diff. but as long as there is comunication n mutual understanding, i guess it's alright? to keep a reln long, my tinking is tat, u shldn't assume tat the person knows wat u r thinking of, or able to adjust to ur needs just after 1 or 2 times of happening. if u feel tat u r not happy about soemthing, wat's better than voicing it out n letting ur thots b known?

there is no perfect person. everything proceeds smoothly if all partties give n take. keeping any feelings or thots within urself ain't going to help.

wat's more, I wonder y am i often the persistent party in reln? I was usually the one who get jilted. The person either found someone better, or felt our characters clash, or simply started to ignore mi. I wonder, why is there such low tolerance in LTR? when we are unhappy wif a frn, we can tell him about it. or avoid him whenever possible. but when it comes to LTR, do ppl look for auto-change in that person, or they will talk it out?

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ok, abt the debate on ch U. having lived out on my own, i begin to underatand the pains of parents. i'm not a parent yet, so i cant say much. but having passed the period of kid, i know its feelings, but dunno abt the thinking of kids these days.

yes kids now grow up faster n understand much more than we do during our time. i am surprised tat the lady (ex-colleague) look demure, but she can spout out those sexual lines n thot inducing sounds. she's 20.

being kids, we often cant think much. some kids develop EQ prety fast. so, when thigns happen, they dun jump to conclusions but calm down n figure out the next step. these r the ok kids. but kids prefer to play n run about. they duno much abt EQ. they jus do wat they wan n dun ever think a lot. in this sense, parents hav to play a part. rmb when u were a kid, did u think a lot abt hwo ur family feel if u do something? if yes, COOl, if not, why u think ur kids can?

put urself in the kids shoes. u been thru their experiences n ages. ok, soem kids r rebelllious, kind, scaredy, adventurous. it depends on how much u know them. dun assume every kid is the same. when u are at work ,can u 100% ensure ur colleagues have the same thinking as u?

some kids, they listen to parents. but there r ppl who need to experience it to learn a lesson. there's no point in stopping them. it's better to jus let them know, they can try, but know the consequences. kids have their own thinking, but parents have the experience. let them know of the outcome. talk to them calmly. if the forseen problem comes, jus tell them ur opinons, dun ever blast off at them.

the key issue, know ur kids well.

ahaha.. after watchign the show, i jus slept at my family there. next morn, woke up, felt like i at some chalet siazz..