luv_ktv's untold moments

long time nvr do exercises...

deciding to buy my desired IT gadgets

checking out my future career

cehcking out possible internet plans

n finding out the good mobile plans...

wondering when i can move back HOME

really feel VERY sick of the job... perhaps due to its stagnant nature?

i now reading books on EQ. had wanna read on PR bks, but found these instead. " Trust & betrayal in the workplace" and " EQ development : from success to significance" are good books. " Social cognition" does not really suit me. the first 2 showed egs of ppl who empathise wif those around him, making a better person. n how to build trust n confidence in ur dept, cos if u dun show faith or trust in ur colleague's aibilities n work, they wun do their best.

well, i think this is happening to mi. in my job

den today, really surprising.. n i wonder if i am SENSITIVE... a good frn from poly actually working in HSBC as FINANCIAL PLANNER. he called mi up asking for meetup. haha, upon hearing he working as adviser, i immedaitel have the feeling he's gonna be hardselling again... another person who gonna hardsell. my opinion is, if u asking ppl out for lunch, n they dunno wat u working as, DUN EVER reveal ur work nature.

even if u muz, dun mention it over dinner. mention it only after 3/4 of a meeting, so tat, u'll appear u nto meeting the frn wif selling products in mind...more like jus informing the frn u r in the biz, n hope he can support u. ya, mi now oni tok cock nia. cos.. havn even start n got all thes cocks to tok.

n now, i'm, really serious in going overseas for xmas... now oni see when my frns r free, n when i can take leave... wah, first time i go myself.. so exciting@

toking abt frns, i'm kinda confued now. cos, perhaps i was influenced soemhow. but i feel tat it's my right to do it. u see, some frns who pissed mi off till the point i really give up hope. these r ppl who i dun wan stay in contact at all. wanna leave them outta my life. but right now, given my situation n how hypocritic some frnships can b, i really wodner if, i can get in touch wif them once more. but this time, i ONI TREAT them as acquaintance... ppl who i dun need to b so trusting n truthful. they dun need to know the truth in watever i do, n i dun need to b 2 frank n sincere to them. it may b the usual way frnships r, but to mi, it';s FAKE.

see how, after all, since some ppl cannot take the truth, i have been wondering its value for them...

den hor, saw from TODAY paper that, ppl r discussing heatedly over the naming of sch, roads n landmarks. i thot it's oni gonna b a 1 or 2 letters responding to it. wah expect such a fuss over it. comeon, wat does a name have in it?? it's for humans to refer. oni if sonmeone contributed to it, or it's due to some great works, den it's useful n historical to give it a meaninful name. if not, it's jus ANOTHER name.

does Creative hold any significance to anything? Other than its original meaning?

Does Lot 1 mall mean anything?

Does Heeren/taka mean anything?

was also amused by some replies in TODAY too. started off wif a ger (no bias here is eant, thus ger is better word) wearing jeans n casual attire, not of a typical female attire, ie skirt, blouse, tube (like i know wat it's.) the group of gers den complained tat it's ladies night, so y reject the ger, just cos of the way she dresses? i din feel much, jus unhappy wif how the staff deal wif it. den today, got 1 mail replying to a reply to tat letter. this mail was saying, some issues, i din realise the whole story till i check the new groups/

the reply was saying, the ger shld know better tat since it's ladies night, it's obvious tat the theme was to have gers inside the bar, and men will come flocking in. if she wants to enter teh bar, she shld have dressed in a better manner, instead of such lesbian/butch wear. ending wif, if u wnana enter the pub, play by its rules.

(hehe, as i am reading the reply, i have some things to say...)

den the mail was reply, the reply made women sound so cheapskate, going in when it's free entry. if the purpsoe is to seduce/attract lusty males into the pub, then oni women clad in skinwear shld enter. those without a good figure can b left out.

to mi, (obviously?) the reply was aimed at gay issues. but on wat grounds did the bar reject the entry? was the ger a transexual? did the IC state her sexuality as F/M? if it's F, why isn't she allowed entry? butch? wat'st eh definition? mus she wear a skirt or blouse to flaunt her beauty? is there a STATED dresscode?

it's a ladies night, whereby all females shld b allowed entry. it's not the customers' responsiblity or obligation to ensure they r dressed in certain way that can attract male clients. so why stick the duty of "ladies shld attract guys" on the ger? unless the bar states "oni ladies dressed in an appropriate manner will be allowed entry" hahaha...